The essence of Ramadan is to become humble
Ramadan Mubarak to all Muslim friends around the world.
beautiful month of fasting, prayer, mercy, forgiveness,charity,guidance, tranquility,reflection & peace
Muslims around the world will begin fasting from Monday june 6, 2016
and for a whole month thereafter, however, for some it will begin only
if the moon is sighted.
Since the beginning of Islam, there have been debates as to what
constitutes moon sighting. Some interpret that there has to be a minion
to declare that they have seen it themselves with their own eyes, where
some others do not accept the holiday unless they have seen it
themselves. In the United States, there is an organization that monitors
moon sighting called the Hilal committee. At one time it was acceptable
if the moon was sighted elsewhere, but now, each group has to have
their own moon sighting.
Politics runs deeply in our communities, be it a temple, synagogue or a
church, and mosques are no different. A few
scientifically-inclined-Muslims have adopted NASA's calculation,
believed to be precise. However, four different traditions are operative
concurrently; i) Strictly Calendar, ii) NASA and iii) Sighting with
bare eyes and iv) Sighting by others in the community.
The NASA-oriented and the calendar-group misses out the fun, joy and
exhilaration of waiting and watching the needle thin moon on the
horizon. The whole family gets out on the roof tops, or higher grounds,
some even climb electric poles, and a few will drive out where they can
see the sky without obstacles, kids would climb up on parent's
shoulders, and a few run from place to place shouting in excitement, did
you see? It is like the belief in Santa Claus, angels and other myths;
each tradition fulfills one's emotional needs and every one becomes
sentimental. After all, if celebration does not have the excitement, it
is less of a celebration.
America's spirit of freedom touches every soul, no matter what religion
or tradition they follow. American Muslims are no different, they prefer
to have a pre-set date to start fasting and the celebration called
"Eid" (pronounced as 'Eeed'). The idea is for them to take a day off
from work or get an optional day off for their children from the
schools. Always, the joy multiplies when the family and friends
celebrate it together. They prefer not wait for the moon to show up to
the bare eyes.
The conflict is the same every where on the earth. Each group subscribes
to one of the four systems mentioned above. America is no different;
you will find celebrations on one or three different days in any given
city. The Sunnis, being the largest group has the greater division
within, while the Shias, Ismailis, WD Mohammad, Bohra and Ahmadiyya
follow the pre-determined dates. The consensus may be attributable to
having central spiritual leadership in all groups except the Sunni.
However like the American public wishes to see Republicans and Democrats
drop the party lines and focus on what is good for America, the Muslims
also wish they could celebrate the Eid on one single day. It ain't
going to happen; it is human to disagree.
It is against the spirit of Ramadan to denigrate, diminish and devalue
other practices. The essence of Ramadan is to become humble, simple and
free from ill-will, anger, meanness and hate.
Let's fill our hearts with goodwill and honor Ramadan by saying "Eid
Mubarak" or Happy Eid to every one who celebrates on a different day in
the same town. The essence of Ramadan is joy and let's not prick any
one's bubble; God has not signed a pact with any one behind others back,
let's rejoice the differences of interpretations. If you want to
celebrate every day, go to every celebration.
In the spirit of Ramadan, I pray that Ramadan gets into our hearts and
minds and make us embrace all factions of Muslims without undermining
their tradition and further pray that we treat every human on the earth
with dignity, respect and care.
That is indeed the wisdom expressed in Qur'an, Al-Hujurat, Surah 49:13:
"O mankind! We have created you male and female, and have made you
nations and tribes that ye may know one another. The noblest of you, in
sight of God, is the best in conduct. God Knows and is Aware of
everything you do."
Ramadan Mubarak! 2017